Ive spent a couple of days weeding, thining beds out and mowing the lawn, got the blisters to prove it and the stiff back, but it was so worth it. Next came the bathroom which had been without floor covering after I flooded the bathroom following an attempt to clear the drain on my bath, that were taking ages to clear of water.
Silly me took the U bend thingy apart and broke the seal, hence the flood which came through the ceiling into the kitchen below...The man who came to do the repair said it could be our secret as I should not have done this apparently..Shhhhhhhhh ( red face ) I shall never make it to plumber status.
However I did manage to lay some rather nice flooring and paint the walls so its all spick and span in there again.
This has all been theraputic in part, its been a great way to deal with the news I got from my solicitor about ten days ago that the court case that was due to go ahead tommorrow has been delayed yet again until November the sixteenth. My husband apparently has a new solicitor and appealed for the delay which was granted.
My solicitor feels this could be favourable to me, the last time we met I found myself barely able to keep it together as Ive not spoken much about the circumstances that led me to leaving, its been eight years and Ive moved on, but speaking about it just seemed to bring it all back.
I think I was surprised that it still hurt so much and could still bring me down, so I started another blog...just to get it all out,stick my tongue out and go blah!!!!! to people who think bullying, manipulation and abdicating responsibility is a great way to build a lasting relationship.... I think Im past caring what happens, other than its all brought to a close in November.
I got home from a couple of days spent with my partner to recieve a belated birthday gift from my son.
This little fella is to replace a little kitten a friend had given me just prior to me leaving my marraige, that came with me through 3 moves and mysteriously disappeared when my husband manipulated me back to the marital home...thats a long story best forgotten.
Let me introduce tsuri..well thats for now until I can think of something else. He/She has the most beautiful markings and is so friendly...Until Honey gets used to a new presence its being kept in the puppy pen......Thankfully Alan is a big softy when it comes to animals so no chance of this little monkey doing a sudden dissappearing act.
I had hoped to pay my daughters in London a visit during this leave but I think that will have to wait for another time as Im back to work.....rather reluctantly I must add....on Monday.
Thought I would try this one out of interest, wonder if I show it to the judge he will take this as conclusive evidence, perhaps of my warped sense of humour if nothing else???
Your Ex is Narcissistic
Your ex thinks they're the most important person in the world and couldn't care less about anyone else.
Your ex definitely has a god complex.
People with narcissistic personality disorder want total power, lack empathy, and are very arrogant.
Sound at all familiar?