I have to admit Im in a bit of a flunk, Im finding it so difficult to write anything just now. I guess Im calling on my blog buddies to send some positive energies out into the universe although Im not sure if its me or my ex that needs them..I despair.
There was mirth and merriment in the air, Im heading for New York, Rita was heading for Cyprus to visit her best friend who lives over there and Simona and her boyfriend have booked a week in Barbados...sounds good, is good until their father decided that he would just call them as witnesses for the divorce. My solicitor asked me what did I think or have to say...Well nothing. I had thought this man was beyond dissapointing me or surprising me anymore, but no.
He in his wisdom has also decided to call Alan and Ritas boyfriend Darren. It would be laughable if it werent so pathetic and stressful for the younger ones. I think what he is hoping for is some crass combined version of the Gerry Springer and Jeremy Kyle show all rolled into one to take place in the court room
Emotional blackmail, clutching at straws are terms that have been used. The case may now be postponed again in order to allow the girls to go on their holiday but live with the stress of this in the background or it will go ahead meaning they will have to attend and change their plans.
Me Im hoping that no judge in the land would see the need for 2 children out of family of 7 be involved in financial aspects of their parents divorce and that it will go ahead without them..
In the meantime Im off to stick some pins in my voodoo dolls..Only kidding I feel he is so low, cowardly and panicking he is not even worth that amount of my energy
There!!!!! Sorry Im blabbing on about this again, but its good to get it down in black and white..I used to have a rule for myself either deal with it, dump it or delegate it but dont moan...I think Im just broke one of my own rules....lol
Dedicated to the man clutching to straws, perhaps he will find that all hes left holding at the end of all this. Who knows???